Harassment by neighbors can take many forms, including yelling obscenities; loud and disruptive noises (especially at night) from parties, fights, or other activities; threatening or abusive behavior; or damage to your home or yard by pets.

If your neighbor’s behavior is merely annoying and not abusive, threatening, or criminal conduct, you may be able to resolve the issue with a courteous discussion. But if your neighbor’s conduct is threatening, abusive, violates a noise ordinance, or is a criminal offense such as stalking, trespassing, or peeping, for example, you may be able to get assistance from the police (call 911 in an emergency) or from the civil courts in the form of a restraining order.

In New Hampshire, harassment by neighbors is addressed under various state statutes and local ordinances. If the behavior includes yelling obscenities, loud noises, threatening behavior, or property damage, it may fall under the state's criminal laws regarding disorderly conduct, criminal threatening, or criminal mischief. New Hampshire RSA 644:2, for example, covers disorderly conduct which may include excessive noise or other disturbances. More severe actions like stalking are covered under RSA 633:3-a. For non-criminal but disruptive behavior, local noise ordinances should be consulted, as these vary by city or town. If the behavior is threatening or abusive, victims can seek a restraining order, known as a protective order in New Hampshire, under RSA 173-B for domestic situations or RSA 633:3-a for stalking. In emergencies, calling 911 is appropriate. For non-emergencies, victims can contact local law enforcement to file a report or seek further assistance. It's recommended to document incidents and, if possible, to attempt a peaceful resolution before escalating the matter legally. An attorney can provide guidance on the appropriate legal response based on the specific circumstances.